Does Your Chinese Girlfriend Really Love You?

Because many men have a fear that if they marry a Chinese woman she may be just doing so to improve her financial status and because it’s often a question guys email me about, I’m writing this article. Not everyone has visited or lived in mainland China, not to mention having dated a cross-section of Chinese woman, so there is certainly some kinds of information you should be aware of, no matter in the beginning stages, or even at the marriage stage.

Even though I had been involved in the Chinese community in my own country for many years, and also dated Chinese girls in my own country, it didn’t prepare me at all for mainland Chinese women!

Let me just say this to start off, as this is definitely something you should pay attention to: Chinese females don’t express their feelings or thoughts in the same way as western women do, and this can really confuse quite a few western guys; testimony to this fact is my email box! Even some clues and signs you may think show her feelings may simply be her culturally conditioned behavior fooling you. Essentially, Chinese women are taught from a young age to act in a certain way so they can secure a husband, their mothers deliberately raise them this way. When they reach adulthood they don’t actually know they are doing this, this is especially so of mainland Chinese women.

So how can we find out of a Chinese woman really loves us, as it is a fact that in Chinese culture love is not a prerequisite for marriage, were it not the case we wouldn’t really need to ask this question. Yet I can say there are huge amounts of Chinese females that are totally genuine, honest and loving, not to mention beautiful. In China Chinese people often consider love as an action, for example if a Chinese woman cooks for you or raises you children or even take care of you when you are ill they would say in all honesty they ‘love’ you. Few women in Chinese culture would consider this a form of deceit, as in Chinese culture it’s not!

In any case, so that we can make sure your Chinese girlfriend or fiance really has some deep feelings for you, lets take a look at a few clues:

If a Chinese woman starts showing concern for your health then it can be an indicator that her feelings are deeper than just friendship. In the culture, a Chinese woman, and especially a wife, should show some concern over her husband’s health; so if it’s in the beginning stages of the relationship and she is doing this with you then it’s a really good indicator that she really has some feeling for you. This is also a way that many Chinese women try to give a man a hint that she likes him, so either way, it’s a good sign!

Another big giveaway that your possible Chinese …

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Do You Know About These Types of Leather Jackets for Women Bikers?

Jackets are considered a necessary part of any female’s wardrobe. As they cover the whole chest, they are the most noticeable piece of clothing. Some women prefer wearing leather vests in summer, while others go for leather jackets. When it comes to bikes, leather jackets are perfect. They are tough enough to give you the required protection and pamper your sense of style with their numerous designs.

The most common biker jackets women can own are:

Classic Jackets

These jackets are made from thick and soft cow-hide leather. They feature extra length in the back along with a padded kidney panel. Dual vents in both the front and back facilitate air flow through a mesh shell. For winter, these jackets are equipped with an internal wind flap that stops the cold at the zipper. For even lower temperatures, they have a zip-out full sleeve lining and hide-away neck warmers. Riders can stow these away in summer and bring them out in winter without having to invest in a new jacket for each season. A well-made jacket will also come with side lacing that will make it easier for the rider to adjust the jacket to his/her body.

Summer Riding Jackets

If you want a season-specific jacket for summer, then go for a summer riding jackets. These jackets will keep you cool while still offering the protection of leather. They are crafted from a lighter weight top grain cow-hide and made with vents in the rear and sleeves along with mesh shells that ensure easy airflow to the body. They also come with zippered sleeves and Velcro straps on the sides that allow for adjustment. These jackets are made with soft and supple dull leather finishes that make them easy on the eyes in the glaring summers. Since people love to go riding at night in summer, look for a jacket that has dark reflective piping above the kidney panel. This will ensure visibility in the night by reflecting headlights that shine on it.

Fitted Classic Jackets

Fitted classic leather jackets are for serious leather lovers. These jackets are made from high quality cow-hide leather that is soft, supple and incredibly durable. Most of them come with zippered expansions on the sides that allow for greater comfort while sitting. They also feature expansion joints behind the shoulders. Vents are generally built into the front, back and sleeves to allow maximum airflow and keep the wearer cool during warm weather. Depending on the kind of accessories you like to keep in your pockets, pick a pocket style that will keep them safe.

Women’s Touring Jackets

A touring jacket for women is generally made from naked soft cow-hide. Popular and practical designs include mandarin collars, stripe detailing and hidden zippers that give a streamlined look. Touring jackets also come with vents in the rear, front and sleeves and all are supported with mesh shells to keep you cool during warmer days. Zippered sleeve cuts and pockets make for better body adjustment.…

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