For some, getting a man to fall in love comes naturally. Why does it have to be so difficult for the rest of us? You have found that special someone, but he either doesn’t acknowledge his feelings or doesn’t know that you exist!
You think that it’s all fate. Surely, destiny and love will lead the way. What you don’t know or fail to realize is that there are a few things that you can do, to make the man you are in love with feel emotionally closer. So getting a man to fall in love with you will be a matter of time!
The fact that you are reading this article makes me think that you already have your eyes and heart set on a man. That’s half the battle. You have to make sure that you are appealing to him both emotionally and physically, so that he’ll find you totally irresistible. I know a lot of women try to rush into things when they begin to fall in love with a man. Once upon a time, I also built up so many walls of hope, for a happily ever after life. I guess most of us are guilty on this count!
The problem is you have this awesome man and things are really good between you two. But he doesn’t bring up the topic of being exclusive or the ultimate walk down the aisle.
One day, I was have a chat on this with my guy friends and they had a lot to say on this topic! I was told that some guys evade these topics purposely; just to see how she will manage it. Will she bring it up or will she nag him? Will this become a pressing issue between them?
Irrespective of the feels you have for him, you have to make him feel like he is pursuing you. Don’t be the needy woman chasing the man. I know that’s very difficult if you are in love with him. The thing is when you are in love it’s like you’ve taken a drug! You want to spend every waking hour with that person. You can’t stop thinking about them, and basically your entire world starts revolving around him!
So ladies, getting a man to fall in love with you will be far more difficult if you keep pressuring him into committing. Be patient and see whether he brings it up first. I am sure if he is interested, he will talk of commitment and a life ever after. Also, when he does ask you, don’t be too eager to say yes! Men like women who are not too hung up on commitment and if he thinks that it’s not a big deal for you, it will be a plus point for you!
Have you ever thought about what it would be like to have the man you love, throw himself at your feet, ready to risk practically everything he has, just to be with you?